He whispered to her, what’s stopping you? She stood there, frozen for a few moments as she searched for the answers. Staring off into the distance, she appeared to be calm, but her mind was racing. What’s stopping me, she kept repeating over and over in her head. She hoped that like a rabbit, it would pop out of it’s hutch and quickly reveal itself, but it didn’t.
It was just a moment but it felt like an eternity of searching in those tiny minutes that passed by. Her mind was all over the place. Thoughts came and went like a fierce tornado ripping through the space within her mind. Quickly, she would acknowledge and dismiss and sometimes even try to justifying the thoughts that came and went. As hard as she tried, none could truly be reason enough to keep her from her most sacred of dreams.
He leaned in and placed his hand on her back and suddenly the tornado slowed and the dance halted. He whispered again, Have you found it? With a sudden acknowledgement of what had just taken place, she smiled and said, yes. It’s me. I am the only thing stopping me. I wanted it to be so many other things, but every thought that felt legit, was nothing more than an excuse and I was the one creating those excuses.
Isn’t it crazy, how amazingly powerful our minds are. We have the ability to invent, create, experience and destroy an endless array things with our thoughts alone. We create the blockages and we also have the ability to remove them. The question should really be… Are you ready to step forward?
I was in the middle of my workout this morning while I had this tremendous realization and I'd like to share with all of you. As you imagine I was working out and not video ready so this is a voice over as I stopped to record my thoughts while they were fresh and raw in my mind. It's a realization of pain, love, healing and transformation. For who ever may need to hear this today.. I hope it helps in some way to bring you healing as well.
The Relationship Talk with Waya... I wanted to take a moment to discuss problems with relationships and how we deal with those problems. How we get closure and how we move forward.
This is a LIVE video from a few weeks ago I forgot to post that covers soooo many topics. I cover not only, the New Moon, smudging, and relationships, but also go over what to expect from the monthly energy for the rest of the year and a little about 2019.
This is a LIVE video from this morning. I speak about the process of letting go and how we get ourselves out of that terrible loop of reliving the past and holding on to old ways, old pain, old relationships, etc.
This one is a long one but I hope that you'll find it worth it! The question of the day is: Are you a Victim or a Survivor? Are you tormenting yourself by reliving past pain or are you making the best out of a horrible situation that happened once upon a time? Many of us have been down the road of abuse and if you are reading this... you survived! Now it's time to release yourself from the past and allow healing.
What we believe sets the tone for our life path. As we grow and age and have experiences our beliefs change, sometimes to the extreme and sometimes slightly. The words we tell ourselves and others effect all aspects of our lives and can either boost or limit our potential. The great thing is that we are in control of the words we use. We can build ourselves up or tear ourselves down. We can tap into our own unlimited potential or we can limit ourselves with our beliefs... the choice is ours.
In this video I speak about some ways to ground yourself. Grounding is very important when you are feeling out of balance in one way or another. It's a way to release unwanted energies, to gain more positive energies and to help you find clarity.
A friend once asked me how to explain to others how being in awareness of your own abilities can bring you into a better place. Even though we all have abilities, most like to stay in their safe place so that they don’t feel vulnerable.
My Response: Most people are afraid to question what they were always taught to believe … so they fight with themselves, second guessing what they feel inside to be true. Your soul already knows where you are going and what you should do, but most people fight with their own souls because they were taught something else.
Don’t get too caught up in the meanings other people, websites or books give you, you can listen to them, take them in and make note but don’t let that be what guides you. You have to always listen to your own inner knowing… your own soul.
The more we trust, the more our lives will come together in a much more peaceful way.
I’m not saying we won’t have battles because we will. We will battle, we will struggle and we will survive.. time and time again… that’s all a part of living and if you have never been through a storm how can you help guide another as they go through their own.
There comes a point in your life when you have to let go of old ideas, behaviors and/or beliefs...
Throughout our lifetime many things will come and go as we need them. Be careful not to cling too tightly to any one thing in your life. When it's purpose has come and gone we need to release it from our grasp so that something new can come in and help us in our growth and in our travels along this path.
I'm not saying give up everything you ever believed in... but more so ideas, beliefs or behaviors that are no longer suited for you at this moment... this place and time on your journey.
We need to learn how to allow our ideas, behaviors and beliefs to transform. The stubborn part of us may want to stick to what we have always done... but it is like this: if you get stuck in the mud and all you do is put your foot on the gas, spinning and spinning to get out... the result is that you just get buried deeper in that mud pit. There is a chance that it may finally work for you and the traction may find something to take hold of and push you out of the mud... but there is also a chance that it won't. How long are you going to do the "Let's wait and see" game?
So what I'm saying... is that it's time to step back and take another look at where you are and what you are doing and what you are thinking and trying to achieve at this time. There is a change that needs to be made in order for you to get out of that mud and move on. So what are you waiting for? You already know the change that needs to be made. Don't fear the road ahead... listen to that inner knowing and march on!