There comes a point in your life when you have to let go of old ideas, behaviors and/or beliefs...
Throughout our lifetime many things will come and go as we need them. Be careful not to cling too tightly to any one thing in your life. When it's purpose has come and gone we need to release it from our grasp so that something new can come in and help us in our growth and in our travels along this path.
I'm not saying give up everything you ever believed in... but more so ideas, beliefs or behaviors that are no longer suited for you at this moment... this place and time on your journey.
We need to learn how to allow our ideas, behaviors and beliefs to transform. The stubborn part of us may want to stick to what we have always done... but it is like this: if you get stuck in the mud and all you do is put your foot on the gas, spinning and spinning to get out... the result is that you just get buried deeper in that mud pit. There is a chance that it may finally work for you and the traction may find something to take hold of and push you out of the mud... but there is also a chance that it won't. How long are you going to do the "Let's wait and see" game?
So what I'm saying... is that it's time to step back and take another look at where you are and what you are doing and what you are thinking and trying to achieve at this time. There is a change that needs to be made in order for you to get out of that mud and move on. So what are you waiting for? You already know the change that needs to be made. Don't fear the road ahead... listen to that inner knowing and march on!