No one wants to be alone for the holidays, so they are more open to meeting. The thing is you MUST get out and go do things!! When I was single, doing things on my own were rewarding. Being with someone who doesn't want to do the same things you want to do is lonelier than doing it alone. Be daring and just get out there and experience life! If you have someone special in your life, make sure you are doing some things together. Find things you can both enjoy and go do those things... make memories!